And now you swear that you’re being honest, but you’re not honest, and you never could be. And when I see her I’ll tell her what’s been on my mind all these sleepless nights. She’ll recite her excuses. Put my tail between these legs of mine like I do all the time.
there needs to be more emphasis on enthusiastic consent. just because she says yes doesn’t mean she wants it. you know the difference little boy. you’re just as bad as the rest of them. you know who you are.
I tell people I base my ideals for relationships off Diego Rivera’s and Frida Kahlo’s marriage. they both always had other lovers but remained loyal to each other. all fighting aside and even after the divorce, they loved each other. I’m just looking for my Diego.
I left my shitty job to come somewhere I could grow both inside and outside of work. but now I give this job all of my energy and 6 days out of my week for minimum wage and I feel like jello and I wanna cry all the time and I’m just so ugh. why can’t things work out?
I think that having thick skin is a blessing in disguise. it allows us to stretch ourselves across multiple people’s lives without allowing ourselves to become too vulnerable. it gives us the opportunity to build meaningful relationships with different kinds of individuals who may fulfill different needs in our lives. it gives us insight in the flaws of relationships and human nature in general. it helps us let go when two peoples time together has run it’s course. it allows us to walk away from relationships that no longer serve a healthy purpose in our lives. it’s not that we are cold or distant. our intentions are not meant to hurt others but only to keep things legitimate. we can invest ourselves wholeheartedly or we can love from a distance. it really just depends on the other part of the equation. we are fluid and in a constant flux and that’s not always bad. we are here to experience as much as we can and connect with as many lives as possible. they all mean something different. they all touch us equally. but we don’t miss them anymore.
Hey there, Maybe I will sound stupid and I'm honestly not trying to suck up or anything. But when I see your instagram posts about your job and food and things you are cooking, it in a weird way gives me some often much needed optimism about making it in the food industry as a girl, especially as I am practically between jobs. So I just want to thank you for being awesome and giving me hope when sometimes (more often than not lately) I just want to kick it in and give up on everything.
keep it up girl! feeding people good food is the most rewarding thing to me. your imagination and creativity are appreciated on so many levels via food. and you can really express yourself in so many ways and people really understand YOU when you cook for them. it’s my favorite form of art. don’t let the heat get to you. this is one of the few professions you can prove yourself worthy in without school or technical training, you just have to work hard! it’s not for everyone but those of us who can make it are some if the strongest. line cooks unite!